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Mature? AM I MISSING SOMETHING???

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Submitted by mommy_of_4 on Thu, 03/31/2011 - 7:20am

But is there ANYBODY who can tell me how a 16 yr old is mature when.. they can't even take responsibility for their actions? they CHOOSE not to use protection to trap their bf because cause their relationship sucks? they contract an std because they r too dumb to use a condom with a guy known for sleeping with everyone in town? they always whine and cry on facebook about how awful they feel? And constantly whining and crying because their bf isn't the moldable ass kissing guy she thought he was? Always seeking everybody's pitty? And how on Gods green earth is LYING mature? And the worst part is lying to cover their own ass. Doesn't being mature involve being honest and taking responsibility for their actions no matter what the consequence?? AM I MISSING SOMETHING???

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Submitted by Asher10 on Thu, 03/31/2011 - 7:36am

16 year olds can be very mature.Depending on how they were raised of course.There are some 16 yr olds who have the emotional intelligence of at least 22.Then there are the rest of those who have the emotional IQ of a 7 year old.There's immaturity at every age it seems.I've met 48 year old women who behave like spoiled little 14 year olds.It makes me sick.

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Submitted by mommy_of_4 on Thu, 03/31/2011 - 7:50am

It was crazy, after she got pregnant watching her talk to my Bkids was so unreal. It was like a 5 yr old talking to another 5 yr old. I couldn't believe it. I know 16 yr olds who are mature. But she is not. Entitlement is right. I am sitting back and waiting for everything to come crashing down. Her and her bf broke up 5 times in the 10 months they dated before she got knocked up. There relationship is far from good and yet she thinks when this baby comes everything will be perfect. he will all of a sudden stop wanting to spend time with his friends and start kissing her ass. yeah um...not likely

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Submitted by mommy_of_4 on Wed, 04/06/2011 - 6:55am

Do you think its possible for someone to be a good mom when they have had no good role models? But to add to that, they are self centered and sooo lazy. She is already having problems with the boyfriends mom because she is so lazy and his mom won't have that. But to have to have someone tell you what needs to be done because you are too lazy to do it. His mom will even come over and do it for them...which I think is completely wrong. you teach her nothing except that being lazy will get your house cleaned.