I seriously think there is something wrong with SS's BM. She calls me, after not speaking to me in a little over a month, to tell me she's picking SS up on Thursday. Not ask, tell. We have court at the end of the month to establish custody and she's seen him for a total of 5 hours (and that's a stretch) in the last month.

She essentially "dumped" SS on us one weekend in April-he was visiting us Friday through Monday weekly. We picked him up one Saturday (Because BM didn't send him to school that Friday and had not bothered to tell me-who picks him up every Friday until that evening after I had already gone to pick him up where the secretary then informed me he hadn't been in since I dropped him off on Monday. I promptly informed his father and played the "not my circus not my monkey's card" ie you deal with her). He stayed with us that weekend, late Sunday night (like 11pm) she starts texting SO to keep SS until Tuesday. I, at this point, had made it clear that I was DONE with her last second bullshit and was not doing it anymore-even if it was feasible because it was upsetting my SS not knowing everyday where he was going/who was picking him up (hello-kid has freakin' Autism-structure is king) and it was exhausting me making it hard to my work and focus or just live period because I had allowed her to run me all over like the town taxi for a few months (SO and I decided a long time ago-we would take him as much as humanly possible so he wasn't in her care until we could get what we needed to go to court. SO works 1 1/2 hours away, his son is as good as blood to me-we do as much as we can to help each other-when I told him I was done being her freakin' on call babysitter he was supportive and thanked me for putting up with it as long as I did. He also reminded me that he doesn't want me to feel I ever have to do what I do, he knows I don't but appreciates the fact that I do). So this last instance, came after a week of her harassing me every day to take SS. I of course told her no, I couldn't-I was sticking to my guns. So when she started blowing SO up, he asked me if I wanted to keep SS until Tuesday. I really had nothing going on and I had to bring BD out to daycare around the corner anyway-so I said yes. We also had to transport to/from SS's school that was 30 mins away so that meant that I was on the hook for Monday's drop off/pick up and Tuesday drop off. Tuesday morning-driving home from drop off I get a call from BM. CPS had been called for Truancy. **SHOCKER** wanted to know if we can keep SS until further notice. Sure. But under 1 condition. He switches to our school district. BM agrees. The next 3 days was BM giving me the run around about doing so. I figure out-SO doesn't need her to do anything to get him enrolled in our district-there's no custody paperwork. SO does what needs to be done. Took about two weeks of Taxi hell but we got him transferred and transportation through our district. As this was happening we filed custody papers.

SS came to us with the ill-fitting clothes on his back. He has clothing at our house, but not enough nice stuff (not covered in grass stains or mud-he likes bugs) to send him to school for a full week without having to do laundry every-other night. So I took him out and bought him new pants, shirts, shoes, socks and underwear. A whole new wardrobe with MY money (it was an off week for SO's pay). Never asked for a dime from SO or BM. SO thanked me religiously. SS was really happy because he got to pick out his clothes-apparently that hadn't happened before.

Here's why I told you all of this:

BM calls this past week and said "She's picking him up Thursday." She goes on to say she needs me to send him with clothing, shorts, shirts, socks, underwear because when she woke up this morning there was a "bug guy" outside her door and her apartment is being treated for cockroaches. She will need his clothing to bring to her uncle's where they will stay Thursday/Friday night and he will be staying with her sister on Saturday and probably her uncle on Sunday because she has to work. She thinks she'll be more available after August. She's also going to take him clothing shopping supposedly-just like she was supposed to take him camping for his birthday or have a birthday party for him.

I REFUSE TO SEND CLOTHING TO THIS *EXPLITAVES* HOUSE. Or her Uncle's or her sisters or where ever the hell else.

I have not seen a DIME from this ho in 5 FREAKING MONTHS. Not for gas, not for food, not for clothing. He LIVED with her 5 months ago-she doesn't have ANYTHING for him? I'm calling BS.

I feel horrible for SS. I don't want to send him in the clothing she sent him in when she saw him in June (a HUGE shirt and too small shorts) but she may very well get him in just that and only that. No socks and the ridiculously large underwear he came back in. And that's IF she even shows up.

I don't want him to be uncomfortable. I won't have that. But if I give him the outfit, he puts it on and doesn't complain-I hope she enjoys the wardrobe SHE'S provided him with for the next 4 days.

There ain't no cockroaches in her apartment. Bitch just accidentally caught a glimpse of herself. RAH.

That was mean.