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Reuniting with step son tomorrow

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So it's been over 9 months since BM and SD pulled there crap (FYI SD is now on PROBATION through the court system - WTG BM) and my DH and i lost custody of SD and SS. DH has been seeing SS every other weekend for the past few months - i was not allowed to until SS therapist said it was ok. Well, therapist has given the ok - and BM said SS could spend the night. We don't really want him spending the night just yet because of all the other crap that has happened (BM more than likely only got this approved so that she can go out and drink).

Surprise at the gyno...

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So I go to the gynocologist today (yes, this is important). As I'm checking in, I am asked to verify my secondary address and phone number. I don't have a secondary address and phone number, so you can imagine my shock when the secondary information listed belonged to DH's ex wife, or as i call her BM from HELL!!!!!!!!!! We can't PROVE it, but this is what we think happened.

well, i didn't slap her

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just got through with court. DH's child support went up another $150 (800 now) and he wasn't able to sign his rights to his "daughter" away because they haven't decided if her SF is going to adopt her. He won't. DH doesn't see the point in giving her up if he's still going to be financially responsible for her. Of course, as it stands he can't see her thanks to the lies she told, and he's still financially responsible for her. This whole thing was about MONEY.

BM = Bowel Movement :)

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Ok, sorry completely not a valid topic, but has any body else noticed that BM could be equated with "bowel movement"? It seems fitting, since about 90% of us on this page would like to take the BM we're currently dealing with and flush her away like the pile of shit she is. }:)

BM is already up to old tricks

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So our CPS case is set to close out tomorrow (3months early). CPS let BM take SS9 and SD14 to Arkansas for a 2 week vacation even though the property ought to be condemned by the health department. DH hasn't seen SS in 7 weeks, because he had to go out of state on business and then when we got back they were leaving for AR. Our court date is tomorrow and BM was supposed to have the kids back in TX yesterday. Cps set this visitation up a week ago! Well, they didn't leave until this morning and now they are having car trouble, but the visitation is still on, unless we hear otherwise.

Today is going to be a rough day

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Well, my son will see sd14 for the first time since 18 April and i'm worried sick. While she lived with us all she did was torture him, but she whined about not being able to see him so the judge ordered bi weekly visitation between my son and SD14 and SS9. I'm so worried about how this is going to affect him, but there's nothing we can do. It sucks all around especially that CPS is just playing into this teenager's hand and doing their best to appease her even at the sake of BS3. Hopefully this will all be over soon enough and we'll never hear from this evil person again.

Loving just being a mom

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So as most of you already know my skids went back to live with their egg donor after living with us for EXACTLY 3 years. Let me tell you, that was a hard transition. I really missed my SS9 and too be honest, still do, but am not able to see him because he is telling everybody he's afraid of me. Sad (stupid eggdonor is coaching him i'm sure). Well, anyhow, it's been 2 months and i've finally woken up and realized how great it is not having them.

need some feed back please

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SD14 who is now living with her BM wrote a letter to the judge requesting that all of DH parental rights be terminated. Our lawyer has told us (we are in texas) that even though his rights are terminated the judge can still order him to pay child support on this little monster. I was wondering if any of ya'll have been through a situation like this and could tell us if the judge has ordered you or your ex to pay child support once rights were terminated or how frequently the judge orders it

Thank goodness for small miracles

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Ok I do not like CPS one bit, BUT I must say it was a small miracle that I was on the phone with them at our mandatory drug testing when the ex wife and her hubby showed up. The lady is able vouch that no verbal confrontation took place and i had staff at the drug testing agency write a letter that no confrontation took place. Though I must say I did get a little (or a lot) of satisfaction when I opened the door and let them see that we were already in there and saw the look on that bitches face }:) They got back in their vehicle (that they had parked next to ours) and left.

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