A little back story...DH and I have been together for almost 8 years (married for over 3 years) and we used to talk about having kids all the time. We'd joke about how we're going to have twins and everything that comes along with it. However, as time has gone on he never brings up us having kids anymore. It has been 1 year since we won full custody of SD9 and I feel like now that he is a full time parent to her he has no interest in having children with me.