Well fiancee has settled down. He says he said what he did out of anger and it wasn't directed toward me. I really think he is just angry and embarassed at the depth of deceipt this woman has and just how much she took advantage of him. She got pregnant on purpose after a very short relationship and they were together less then three years. And obviously for a big part of that she was seeing other people and setting herself up to leave the marriage. They have been apart for two years, it took a year for the divorce to be worked out since she didn't want it, she wanted to live separately and have him keep paying the bills and the settlement for her was in the five figures. He thinks because of his disease and he was hopitalized several times during this period with a "myasthenic crisis" that she fought the divorce just hoping something would happen to him and she would get the house, life insurance etc. I understand how upset and angry he is but it doesn't surprise me since she is willing to hurt their son in order to hurt my fiancee. But he now knows what he knows and the court date is tomorrow morning and we are on pins and needles but getting along fine and are determined to get through this.