Crazy BM hooking up with coworker and still has BF Tweedle there in the background
BM has always been something of a sl@t, in my mind. SO told me that she can get really nasty with her texts (Ive only seen the angry nasty), and I guess that she is popular on Facebook. Some of my friends have had to block her, because she has been very flirty and wanting to "date" them and not taking no for an answer.
So last week Whine-nona SD18 told me that her mother is "dating", and trying to ease out of her relationship with Tweedle. When I have seen them together they are very huggy-lovey.
BM just told SO that she is "dating" her coworker who is 25 (she is my age - 49). She works with autistic children in the school district programs they have, and they have been in a thing for a little while now.
Ick. SO's response when I asked how he felt about it was priceless (to me):"What the heck kind of guy is that? That he cant do better than her - she is older, gross, and not that smart. He must be a special kind of loser. They are probably hooking up in the car after/before work." ( & a few other choice words).
LOL.
It still creeps me out, that she "shares" with other men, and SO tries to keep tabs on things because of its effect on the girls. It also creeps me out that she treats SO like her BFF, and shares all her intimate information with him like she has been doing. Just no.
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Usually when they are over
Usually when they are over sharers it's because they want that person to be jealous. You should keep an eye on her.
meh, I am totally not one for
meh, I am totally not one for Slut shaming. IF....IF all parties involved are ok with it. I do think parents should keep their bedroom lives away from the kids obviously.
But I agree, if she is oversharing she wants someone to be jealous. I don't think I would necessary keep tabs on it though, more just watch and observe that his girls aren't acting out.
It would really bother me if my SO was listening to BMs sexcapades all the time.
I agree with everything that
I agree with everything that you said.
I am no Angel, but then again
I am no Angel, but then again I do not have children who are little sponges absorbing everything I do. Mainly I am just worried that they will begin acting out somehow.
I suspect it is another ploy to remain relevant. If she hopes for jealousy, then it is having the opposite affect because SO is really grossed out by her now. Her better strategy would have been to clean up her life significantly and slim down, date a rich guy! I know it sounds cliché, but he is turned off by her escapades, rather than intrigued. Typical BM behavior it seems, from my reading.
He insists that SHE just
He insists that SHE just tells him what she is up to, he does not actively pursue this information. She has been doing this since I first became his partner. It drives me a little nuts, but cant get overly mad about it because it just grosses him out more. Double-edged sword.
He is concerned for his kids - he doesn't concern himself with her "illness". He wants to protect his children, and he definitely wants the eldest to get herself out of her dark cavern of whatever it is she is in. There is unfortunately no money for expensive therapy, and it is almost too late to redirect her in the positive direction. She doesn't see what she is doing is wrong, at all. In complete denial, that one.
Mother and daughter are keeping their distance, with BM on her best behavior. Giving her money and expensive hair care products, and promising trips and paying for her college classes for summer and fall, from her tax return.
The youngest seems really happy with her mother. Bm is really affectionate and sweet with youngest. Eldest is too much like her mother, without the fighting instinct. Bully without the punch. Eldest, although I realize she is a victim, has to make her own decisions about her life now. I have given my advice, but it is up to her to decide.