So today my step kids woke up and were ready to go swimming the moment i walked into the living room... I told them give me a little bit and I will think about it. Well this is 4 boys that are wining and crying and torturing for almost an hour and each time they got too much to handle I would tell them I am not going to take you if you keep wining like that, and my husband tells me to not talk to his kids like that said that i was getting on their level... i guess we need to talk bout what's the better way to communicate when they are torturing me like that...