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Hi, sometimes i worry i am being too hard on SD16.

This month so far shes had.

200.00 holiday spending money.
Cinema trip with all the trimmings.
New iphone 5s
40.00 pocket money.
Camping trip with family.
Take away meal with what ever she wanted. (her choice we offered yo take her out)

Now i know i the iphone was for getting average exam results B's and C's but i think shes had enough now.

Didnt bite this time.

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Hi guys,

We are off camping this weekend. Meeting up with old friends and chill time with the dd's.

Dh2b asked if sd16 could join us. I agreed, we would have asked her automatically but sd16 wont travel without bf15 and no room in car. So i arranged for dh2b brother and kid to join us. Unfortunately he cant until Sat morning as he is working. Today sd is in a bad mood has thrown the following fits tonight.

1. The tent her and bf had was a small pop up. They only had to sleep in it. SD went daft and now has a full tent, extra £12.00.

Still more crap from SD16

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Hi guys, am i wrong for feeling this way? It bothers me i cant like SD.

Here is a list of the things SD does that annoys me.

1- She joined a gym (only after i did which we pay for) she wont go unless her bf is going. I suspect its a way to get over his parents rule of 2 nights off a week. Anyway it annoys me that shes joined and isn't using it. If she does she goes for 30 minutes here and there and watches her bf the whole time.

Last few years rant.

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think i posted in the wrong place, on my phone.

Hi, I've not been on for a few years, muddling along as you do. Things weren't great but not unbearable until...

OH proposed and we are getting married. Since SD16 found out shes been hell on earth.

Shes a bridesmaid and threw the biggest tantrum ever when she found out she isn't chief bridesmaid. The way shes been acting shes lucky shes invited.

Things are changing.

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Would like to say SD13 has changed but i think luicfer has more chance of iceskating to work.

Speaking of work i have managed to get a really good job in a international accounting firm which in todays current job market im really impressed about, managed to arrange childcare etc all by my self as Fdh buggered off on a Stag weekend to ogle naked women as they do :sick:

Fed up :(

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My fdh must be so proud of Sd13, she's is down stairs screaming at fdh because she hasn't any clothes feeding him 'i'm hard done by' 'you don't love me lines'. Just had enough of listening to him being the worlds biggest door mat. Feeling sorry for myself just want a stress free life

Very Angry with sd13

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}:) Sd13 is just completely void of any bloody common sense, respect, manners or anything slightly remotely good intentioned.

She wanted money to go into town today with her friend, Fdh gave her some instead of thank you he got "is that all" If she was mine that money would have been back into my purse faster than a speeding bullet.

Then this is the bit i am really angry about bd2 fell asleep on the floor she's had a bit of a cold and been a little niggely all day, so instead of moving her and chancing that she might wake i left her be and covered her over.

Ha ha fdh small children can learn.

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Smile just got bd3 pre school report we both went in and it was really sweet, my first parents meeting how proud am i. Bless she is very advanced in maths and writing for her age. She is very artistic and enthusiastic. Though a little shy at first she plays well with her peers. But. . . . The best . . . SHE IS VERY POLITE, always says please and thank you at school which a lot of her friends don't (which I don't get).

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