I am brand new here. But i need to vent and just looking for an outlet and hopefully advice. I have been married for five years and we have a 4 yr old son together. I have two daughters from my first marriage ages 16 and 14. My 16 year old is very responsible, has a prt time job, and takes AP classes in high school. Anything i need done she is my go to girl. My 14 year old struggles a bit in school but still is a good kid and usually no lip nor back talk. I have been divorced from their father for eight years before i remarried. i raised my girls to be very independent and responsible.