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How do I keep the steps out of my space while away?

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I leave tomorrow and will be gone until early next week. DH is not joining me because he has his boys the majority of the time in which I am away. My concern/issue is the steps snoop in my drawers, closet, and bathroom. Other than placing sex toys on the tops of drawers, what are some other ways to keep them out of my stuff? My daughter is also traveling with me, and the steps go into her room and take whatever they want. For her room, I am going to place 20 or so wooden rat traps on her floor. }:)

BM caught in a lie!!!

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BM sent DH a text begging him to keep steps overnight due to her AC going out. She told him that she was worried about their comfort and would pick them up first thing in the morning. DH asked me what I thought. I thought about it for a few minutes and told him absolutely not. I ask DH how BM knew her AC was out since she was gone all weekend. I also told him that she should be more worried about their comfort tomorrow instead of tonight beacuse the temp is suppose to be in the high 90's.

Question...

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BM is freaking our because DH refuses to take steps the weekend of July 6th and keep them until July 10th. Keep in mind this is her weekend and has been scheduled as such for over six months. She told him that she was going to drop them off at our house a few minutes before we get home from work and pick them up late on the evening of the 10th. If she does this, what can we do?

Curse you, HAG (BM)! RANT

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Once again, the MOTY plans to ruin a big day for my family.

A little of this story:

DH and I are the only two who ensured SS14 gets confirmed next month by getting him to class and studying with him. We have done this for TWO YEARS. The hag never took him to class nor helped him study. BUT come Confirmation Sunday, she will stand up with him with her MOTY banner flying :sick: . It will be just a 'show' for her as all of DH's family will be there.

Vacation Update

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The boys came over this past weekend crying and giving us a load of crap because we would not allow BM to take them (on our dime) for three days during our Disney Vacation. DH shut them up quickly by telling them that they would not be going since BM has declared that he can not take them out of state. Of course, the boys call BM and tell her that they are not going after all because DH can't take them out of state. }:) She was even more pissed at DH because she has already bought airfare and made their hotel ressies for her, DH and his two kids.

Vacation Question

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Have any of your BMs tried to 'join' your family vacation?

A little background:

We are planning a family vacation to Disney for spring break 2012. BM decide to come down three days during the week and hang out with the boys (SS 14 and SS 11). BUT she still wants us to cover 100% of the airfare, their park tickets, their hotel room and their meals while she is hanging out with them. Since I signed up for and paid for a package, she thinks it free. BTW-she is not coming alone. Her current husband and his two kids are coming with her.

Need advice....

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Hi All,

I am fairly new here. I have been reading your post for a few months and decided it was time to post for advice.... My question is how do you deal with step kids that lie and act in a deceitful manner all the time?