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O/T when to euthanize a pet?

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Not related to step stuff but this is the only online place I am a member so I will ask here.

I grew up on a farm and all of our outdoor dogs always just passed away naturally or accidentally. I have never had to euthanized a pet. I have never had a small dog or an indoor dog until this guy so I am pretty attached. I don't want to let him go too soon.

Court and cavities

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So today was the last day for Mrs. Timberlake to respond to the writ of summons. Nary a peep from her so they are just going to go ahead and set a court date. I think the plan is to ask that she gets him ever other weekend. Right now they do every other week. FDH took FSS to the dentist on Thursday. He has a cavity. He is six! Apparently he told the hygenist and the dentist that he doesn't "always" brush his teeth at BM's house. *le sigh*

I can't believe the nerve of Ms. Timberlake

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So she told SO last wk that she didn't want FSS for Xmas. She does work til 3:00 Xmas Eve and has to be in at 7:00 Xmas morning but SO offered to drop FSS by around 5:00 on the eve and she could drop him back on the way to work in the morning. She was not interested.

So the gall of this woman. She texts SO last night and wants to know if she can borrow FSS for an hour tonight bc he and his half bro have been adopted by a youth group for Xmas and they are dropping the gifts by tonight! :jawdrop:

FSS cries when asked to play independently?

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He is almost six and cannot entertain himself. He got home at 4:30 tonight. FDH needed to finish up some paperwork. I got him set up with a matchbox car racetrack and came down to do dinner/read. He was playing, but when I went up to take out my contacts around 5:30 he was lying in bed sobbing. When I asked why he said what he always says "I don't want to be alone." I explained to him that we were right downstairs and both doing some stuff and couldn't play that second. He said " but you never do anything with me." (Not true by the way.

Oh these In-laws

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FDH's mother called to invite us over to her and her husband's (FDH stepdad) house this wkend. The last time we were invited over to eat was January 1st 2014. Either she feels guilty for helping BM over FDH or they want to try to convince FDH to drop the custody case, which he won't. I also don't trust FDH's stepdad not to run in tell BM since he is stuck up her twat. I despise him.

Woo Hoo

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I got sent home bc I was sick. Today was lawyer day. It has been agonizing waiting to hear from FDH. So much for losing myself in my work, right?

Ahhhhh HELP! Sort of long

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So remember as of last night BM was moving to another state? Well we had FSS today, it is her weekend but she was busy. She left FSS's half brother at my FDH's mother house today. Well we were trying to visit MIL all day so FSS could see her but we couldn't reach her. FDH finally reached her tonight and she couldn't "really talk" bc BM was over visiting :jawdrop:

Can she leave the state with FSS?

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BM has FSS this wk and has text twice today saying she is moving to another part of the country. Their custody order spells nothing out. Just say "joint legal and physical custody". They do every other week, but we usually have him more than that. There is nothing on record saying every other week, just a verbal agreement between them. What happens if she leave the state with FSS? I know he could file something with the courts, but he would need to find her first. It would be considered kidnapping would it?

DSS and Ms. Timberlake

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So DSS refused to tell FDH what entitlements his son was on or why they were pursuing him for child support even after he showed them he was the custodial parent.

I filled out an anonymous form on their website reporting BM for fraud.

On the Writ of Summons she said her income is $0. I just now got her to admit via email that she works 7-3 five days a week. I weasled it out her under the guise of plan the holiday schedule.

In the words of Dave Chappelle "Gotcha, Bitch"

I think she is so stupid she doesn't realise she is commiting fraud.

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