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Does the BM in your situation do weird things when DH comes to pick up the kids?

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My skids BM is mentally ill so she is always odd but she is pretty nice and she is fine on pick-ups. But I have read of some crazy stuff on here like BM wearing revealing clothes, having a big tantrum, crying at drop offs etc.

Opinions on BM using you and DH's family memberships to pools, parks,zoo etc?

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Do you allow BM to use your family membership passes to the Zoo or wherever when she has the dcs? Does DH ask you? BM and GBM have asked and we have let them a few times, but cards have been lost and had to be reordered and we had a minor issue with a local amusement park who felt we were exploiting the family pass program. I really don't like to share stuff like this. It is too expensive and it annoys me to be asked.