I have a SS10 with severe Oppositional Defiance Disorder and a hubby with ADD, Diabetes and I suspect anxiety issues.

We have been married for just over 4 years, with my son, who is 6, which DH adopted, and a daughter 4 who we created together.

Lately we're had money issues. His X drove him into debt, which means he's very hard to talk about with money, to the point I'm afraid to talk about our finances because I fear he will have a temper tantrum.