I had a very relaxing 11 days off of work. I work 3 days 12 hours so with 4 days a week off, a week vacation and then flipping ends of the week...11 days off.

Got a lot of stuff done before the cold and snow. Got in a few days of just relaxing and vegging around.

And then Wednesday happened and then Saturday happened.

For those who don't know...I created a fake facebook acct and got BM to friend me 3 years ago. I use it to find out very interesting things about BM.

Last week, BM had a big blowout with her sister and BFF of the month, on FB for the world to read. BM is severe borderline (and I'm sure other things) so she can only maintain friendships for a few months at best and then there are blow outs with them.

Last year we had a boy on our u12 soccer team that was tall for his age...tallest in the league.

He moved up this fall and anytime anyone references the boy...we all say the 'Tall Kid'. I think of you every damn time its said.

I would ask if its your SS, but this kid ran cross country and played soccer and I know your SS just sits around a lot.

I understand DSO has his pride, and that $50/month won't break us, it is the principle of the matter. But while I don't pay directly for SD, indirectly I do bc I pay bills, help get her where she needs to be when DSO is busy and recently been taking up more slack bc of DSO missing work. So why isn't BM contributing even if its just the payment for the clarinet or her cell phone bill.

DSO has been missing a lot of work since end of July with health issues...and now the bills are rolling in and med bills with SD who seemed to have a lot of illness this summer also.