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DH's child support ending after almost 20 years!

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Submitted by 3_steps_ahead on Tue, 01/29/2013 - 1:55pm

MSD is turning 21 this Friday and DH's child support obligation will finally be ending. This "child" has wanted nothing to do with DH for basically her entire life due to PAS, has refused to believe that DH is her real father since her mother has always told her that DH isn't her biological father.

Oh, I'm sorry BM - was I supposed to feel bad??? (long)

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Submitted by 3_steps_ahead on Sat, 12/01/2012 - 9:17am

I take an elderly family friend out grocery shopping every month. The woman is on a fixed income and none of her family members in the area have cars, so I'm pretty much all she has when it comes to her getting her monthly grocery shopping done. The complication to all of this - this elderly woman also happens to be the grandmother of OSD22 and the mother of SD22's BM - the BM that if you read my bio was 27 and married when she decided to seduce her brother's 2 younger (underage) friends in order to get pregnant.

Trying to disengage, but hoping that this newest situation will open people's eyes to the kind of person that SD19 really is.

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Submitted by 3_steps_ahead on Mon, 11/26/2012 - 1:18pm

I haven't posted a whole lot, but here's a basic rundown of my situation with SD19:

DH got sole custody of SD19 at the age of 12 and she came to live with us (DH, myself and DD2 at the time). BM decided that she wanted absolutely NOTHING to do with her own daughter after she came to live with us and completely cut SD19 out of her family keeping her away from other siblings, etc.