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OT - So cute and an abuse update

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Submitted by learningallthetime on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 9:31pm

So BS7 came to mine after school today as I have had the hell of 5 x 12 hour 7p-7a shifts in the last 6 days, so he was with his dad.

I mentioned tonight that the Easter Bunny needs a clean slate...so he cleaned my entire living room for me! He then asked how I would let the bunny know he was being good. I told him we parents have our ways. He then needed a poop (TMI!) so while he was doing that I got a solitary empty egg and put it in the living room, he came out and was literally jumping up and down "mommy, look, did you see?! He knows I cleaned! He checked! He is magic!".

Older but wiser

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Submitted by learningallthetime on Sun, 05/12/2013 - 5:51pm

I joined here because of what I thought I was dealing with via BM years ago. Having now looked back I realize how much crap I went through solely due to ex. It was in his interest to have me believe his lies and I stood up for him, absolutely believing the BM was horrid. He had the children playing into this, through HIS pas. I never saw it. I am now speaking with ex's BM and it makes so much more sense from her side. I know some of you are dealing with crazy-BM's, but for those of you who wonder why it seems so terrible, please please please take my story as an example.

Coming back

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Submitted by learningallthetime on Mon, 05/06/2013 - 6:51am

Hi,

I was a member a few years ago (I think my name was just4me) - I had 4 stepkids, 2 BMS and my BS with exSO. As you can see, he is now exSO. We split a year ago.