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No wonder you have no children, you're too selfish

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Submitted by youngstepmumtobe on Tue, 06/26/2012 - 10:49am

That's what my father said to me last week when we had an argument.

So for those of you who haven't read my other blogs, I'm 21 and studying for my degree. Things are complicated between me and the OH and I'm not even sure if we'll stay together (I know, I should've gotten out of this mess ages ago!). He has a two year old son who we have 50% of the time and most of the work is left down to me.

Is he just being a d*ck?

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Submitted by youngstepmumtobe on Mon, 06/11/2012 - 11:08am

Sorry to create another post but I feel this is a little bit off topic to the other.

He's said he doesn't want SS around as much, said he doesn't want him in our house. It's always been a thing, even before I had an issue with it. That he hated having SS around so much because according to him he "never planned him in the first place, BM did". According to him, SS lives with his mum and so he doesn't have to see him as much.

As much as I can sympathise with him and as much as I resent SS, is he just being a d*ck towards his own son?

Today is a new and better day :-)

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Submitted by youngstepmumtobe on Wed, 05/30/2012 - 1:29am

So yesterday I was frustrated that SO constantly goes on about SS2. If anyone took offence then I am sorry but it had been a long couple of days. I also had BM telling me I had to look after SS2 this weekend when SO is busy (something that's been planned for months) as she wants to go out with friends - saturday will be my first day off in weeks!! So needless to say I was fed up with it all and if anyone did take offence it was not my intention.

totally fed up!! :(

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Submitted by youngstepmumtobe on Tue, 05/29/2012 - 1:01pm

All SO ever goes on about is SS2 when he's here. EVERY SINGLE time SS says or does anything SO laughs and looks me, expecting me to respond in exactly the same way. I really don't care! He always comments like aww look SS is covered in pasta sauce, aww SS did this, aww SS did that - ummm yeah? And? He's 2... That's what 2yr olds do...

Ugh sick of it! Yes, I know. I CHOSE to be with this guy. But I really have NO interest in kids right now. Thankfully I leave for work at half 6am and get home between 6 and 8pm. But seriously, I'm tempted to stay late just to avoid him!

OH "LET" me sleep in!!

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Submitted by youngstepmumtobe on Sat, 05/26/2012 - 8:16pm

Really OH? You LET me sleep in on my birthday?!

Sorry but this really cracked me up when he said that. He has a 2yr old who always wakes up around 7. He did yesterday (my birthday) and OH got up with him and I stayed in bed until 9 - a massive lie in for me as I usually leave for work at half 6. Had another day off today and again OH got up with the little lad.