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Sleeping on same bed and mattress my husbands ex wife slept on

stepmotheroftwo25's picture

I need some opinions: How would you feel about sharing a bed that your husband and his ex wife and their kids shared? They only had it for a year before she left and now we’ve been married for almost a year. Any thoughts? It’s a nice bed and mattress. I don’t want to tell him to get a new one, because it was pricey, but what are your thoughts? We have rotated it and cleaned it. 

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Could you sleep in the same bed...?

stepmotheroftwo25's picture

Could you sleep in the same bed your spouse shared with their ex? The thing is, my husband and his ex only had the bed for a year before she moved out. She was pregnant at the time, so I don't think they had much sex on it. They already had one kid at the time also. For me, it really doesn't bother me, but I want to know what would y'all think of if? It's a nice bed and mattress. Also, I have been sleeping in it longer than she did. 

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Sad stepmom on this Mother’s Day

stepmotheroftwo25's picture

I don't know why I expect any different. DH didn't even tell his kids to wish me a happy Mother's Day or he didn't get me anything. They always come on the weekends and I go into mom mode and help fix them food and give them gifts. My first year married btw. DH did mention my birthday to the kids, but I doubt I will get anything for it. When he mentioned his birthday, SD6 said she would get him a grill for his birthday. SS3 said he didn't get me a card. He was saying how he got his mom and grandmother a card, but not me one. Why do I feel hurt?

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