DH and BM were never married. They've gone by a verbal agreement about visitation with SS, and so far it's worked okay although if you've read my other posts you know BM is a massive b*tch. Anyway, last night BM told DH that she's moving about three states away. He asked her, "Can I get it in writing that you will let me see my son when you leave?" She said "Nope." According to her, DH has never done a single thing to help SS *eyeroll* and she doesn't care if he ever sees his son again.