Hi all
, I'm new here also, I will be a stepmom/grandmom soon, my fiance's daughters , are, well one is great, one is challenging with issues but a nice girl and we get along well ( we do live in diff. states) its the children of this one. Oh my!! I have a grown son , and i have nieces/nephews, and many friends w/ children, so I am not clueless to how kids should behave in someones home! Again they are not here often and I am not grandma but they treat my home like its a mad house, I try to be a good hostess, I have a pool and plenty to do but they insist on roaming my house and its just very chaotic! They were border line cruel to my cat this last time , and that is where I put my foot down! Mom??, well shes clueless and my fiance tries but this is a family of enablers and tough love dosnt enter their vocabulary! I do not want to be an evil step, but where do you draw the line?