Am I The Only One That Thinks Like This?!
My Ss10 and Sd5 are BOTH cry babies!Like full blown terrible 2's tantrum cry babies! To me it's un flipping believable. I believe it has to do with their Mother. She gives them whatever they want and I'm NOT that kinda parent. You have to earn it and if you're acting like a brat you will not get it...at least not from me 
. Ugh it drives me insane!
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You need to set the rules for
You need to set the rules for your own home. They can behave like this in BMs house if it is allowed. The children need to learn that you wont stand for it or tolerate it.
I agree with you. One of my
I agree with you. One of my SSs (11, almost 12) has a habit of regularly having a meltdown when he is unhappy about something or thinks something is unfair. DH has a tendency of trying to make him feel better and sometimes rewards him with treats or fun activities after the fact.
It drives me nuts. I want him to tell SS that his behavior is completely unacceptable, but BM is not above PAS and tells DH all the time that this SS doesn't feel comfortable around DH and feels like DH doesn't care about him, so DH is afraid to say much of anything.
"doesn't feel comfortable" is
"doesn't feel comfortable" is BM/skid language for "doesn't like the fact you can see through their bullshit and will call them on it. "