labor scare and more from stupid BM
well i am almost 28 weeks or 7 months pregnant with twins and the stress that BM has giving me throughout this whole pregnancy has beeen giving me extra stress let alone the bitchyness from my MIL well today i was laying down when i started feeling alot of pain surge throughout my stomach so my DH took me to the hospital and they told me to relax because with twins its normal to go into labor early but not healthy for the babies so i need to just take things slow for the next 2 months and when i get home and try to relaxe in the bubble bath SS comes in and tells me he is about to go to BM's house and that she needs to talk to me she was like "it was really bitchy of you to kick me out of the baby shower i am SS's mom aand his family and i have the right to be anywhere he is" and me just sick of all this bull yells at her " this is my house get the f*ck out right now i dont have time for your drama SS is gonna be there when i give birth and if you show up there so help me i will jump off that bed and personally beat the sh*t out of you". right now i am just soley focused on my twins and me and resting so they can come into this world happy and healthy. this entire pregnancy BM has been a a selfish jealous b*tch right along with MIL and i told DH he needs to focuse on helping me be calm and relaxed and he has stepped up to the plate today was his wake up call he has been taking care of me hand and foot. ps. i am serious if BM dare tries to ruin the day i give birth to my twins so help me ! grrrrrrrrrrrr any advice im sorry i had to vent this website has been my sancturary throughout this prenancy you guys always help me through 
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no lol i was in my robe about
no lol i was in my robe about to take a bath i was pouring the bubbles in the water when SS came in then i walked in the living room to see what BM wanted and thanks for the advice
You need to tell hubby that
You need to tell hubby that there can be no more stress on you - BM needs to stay out of your house period - I am serious - I had a girlfriend who was having twins going through a lot of stress and had to go on bed rest for 3 months - those babies need to stay in you as long as possible - my girlfriend had her mother wait on her hand and foot for the 3 months and she still did not almost make it - tell your hubby that if SS continues to cause drama that he needs to stay away (I know I will be flamed for this but I don't give a shit these little ones deserve a chance at life just like SS had a chance with no asshole woman trying to cause trouble - if BM comes near you one more time or your home get a PPO against her - she is a threat to the lives of your twins - so keep her the fuck away from you and tell DH you mean business and if he starts to waver you tell him that these little ones lives depend on him protecting you and them from BM and MIL.
Your BM is seriously twisted
Your BM is seriously twisted and jealous. She doesn't want to allow SS to have a relationship with you, or for you, DH and SS to be a family unit...does she want to move in so "she can be where SS is?" My God! On the other hand, this health issue can help you define your boundaries...sorry you're going through this but it's a perfect chance to put and keep BM at arm's length.
Let the hospital know now
Let the hospital know now that you have a psychotic stalker and would like to know what they can do to provide you protection while and after you have given birth.
then sue her for ...
then sue her for ... stalking? i dunno something... if she tries it. maybe that will dissuade her from being a psycho where you are concerned.
In most hospitals now - I
In most hospitals now - I would have to say probably all of them - there is a special alarm on the elevators and your babies will be wearing a special foot bracelet with the alarm on their feet - also you can request who is allowed on the floor they take it very seriously when someone tries to come on and start trouble - maternity floors are watched like a hawk because of all the baby kidnappings that have happened over the years - when I had my daughter the maternity floor was more securely guarded than fort knox.
thanks for the advice what
thanks for the advice what should i do when she comes to drop of SS tommorow?
Can you have someone there
Can you have someone there with you? Or tell DH to get him. You don't need to see that witch.
my DH got SS bags out of the
my DH got SS bags out of the car and BM tried to come to the door asking how i was and DH just closed the door in her face lol.
You go girl! I think I
You go girl!
I think I remember an older post where you were talking about bm making life hell too. If i were you, I would find a new place for pick up/drop off, ban bm from your house at least for the duration of the pregnancy and confuse the hell out of her about where the babies will be born - tell ss that the hospital where you are going to deliver has been changed or something. I hope the rest of your pregnancy goes smoothly.