BM will on occasion call FDH, but she refuses to leave a text, an email, or a voicemail stating clearly what she needs. If she does leave one it's always "it's an emergency call me back", or "I really need to talk to you". Very vague and open ended. Like I said, she refuses to use text or email, apparently each one has stopped working or got hacked every other week for the past five years.

Today she actually left a VM...it was a doozy.

FDH please please help me, WE have to get the kids down to GPtown, my GF is dying, he really is this time, he got A-Z symptoms and they don't know what's going on, you have to help FDH, convince dfcs to me take them to see him grandfather before something happens, or even you can take them and I'll meet you there, because the family there doesn't know what's going on, how would I ever explain why SS's never got to see GP before something happened, they will be traumatized and the kids will be too. Please call me back (insert snot snorting, hysterics, whispering while in tears, etc in this conversation)

For REAL WOMAN????? And THIS is why I have NO compassion:

First of all, , and FDH's attorney had to explain to BM's "life coach" to explain to BM...SHE and FDH have NO say in what happens with the kids! They don't have that right anymore.They can't make any decisions right now. There is NOTHING that can be done, no way they can leave. Not even SS10 who is is a regular foster home.

She trashes FDH to everyone but now wants his help???? To take kids down there and acts like he can do something about it?

GP town is 5 hours away in another STATE. She's already considered a flight risk, I can just imagine the train wreck the kids would be if they went and if they ever made it BACK with her ANNNNNDDDDD.....

They have no idea what is going on, (IMAGINE THAT) this family that is so beloved that all her family fights over who's getting what before the grandparents are even gone, but they are so close that she tells them nothing because they told HER at one point she needed to be more reasonable with FDH.

BM thinks that FDH would actually travel in any vicinity of an area knowing she would be there????

OMG. JUST OMG....