Ok DH taking BM to court for CS modification because his company had a company wide 15% pay cut and of course she would not agree to it without spending thousands on attorneys. Anyway I can not stand his attorney. After 20 unanswered emails about the SK's that DH sent to BM, we decided it might be a good idea for me to communicate so there is more proof that she is not communicating about the children. Also DH had a screw up with his expense check and emailed BM to wait 3 days before cashing the CS payment and of course she didn't, she cashed it and went right to her attorney. So DH gets an email from his attorney which was so condescending. It said you really should not have SM communicate with your ex wife because the judge will not like it and don't bounce any checks to BM. (as if he tried to) What really gets me is DH has told his attorney all this and it's like he doesn't even read anything and acts totally clueless, when DH says I already sent this to you he constantly asks him to send it again. We have already paid 2500.00 and court is not til July 25. Do you think we should switch lawyers? I really hate being a SM!