New and need to RANT!!!
Ok so a little back history... My DH and I have had my SD for about 3 1/2 to 4 yrs now. We got custody of her because her BM moved to another state and took my SD without letting us know... but as if that isn't bad enough she moved in with a registered sex offender.
So now on to the present, I have two DD one is 4 and the other is 3 months. My SD is 8 going on 16 (as far as attitude goes) and she absolutely hates me.
When it is just me and the girls at home she is just fine. super happy go lucky blah blah blah. But as soon as her dad walks thru the door she turns into a 3 year old all over again. I can handle a lot but when it comes to the whining crap i go nuts. She has no respect for anyone and my DH thinks she is just a little halo princess that can do no wrong...
Her BM gets her every other weekend and calls her maybe 2 times in the 2 weeks she doesn't see her. I am guilty of standing at her door and listening because her BM is the worlds worst about lieing to her, (which is my fault too BTW) and the BM will often say " Dont listen to her just do what your dad says"... or even worse " You will be with me soon baby" Ya the f right. who in their right mind would give a woman who picks men over their child custody.
My biggest thing is that if i disengage my SD will tell her BM even more horrid stories but I dont know how must more yelling and hatefullness i can take from an 8 yr old. HELP!!!
SRY i know this is kinda scatter brained next ones i will try to pull them together a little better lol!