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keepthefaith313's picture

Okay so this is mostly a vent session but its full of juicy gossip

My issue is best summed up by I HATE the relationship between SO and BM. Its like no one ever moved on. When I first met him he said he had to go get something to eat and ran out to yes get something to eat but also pick up her flipping shoes she forgot somewhere!!!!!

He gives her $1000!!!!!!! For Xmas to spend on all 7 of her children one of which is his :jawdrop:

Endless carting her around to and effing fro

Then that bitch contacts me on Facebook trying to argue with me ugh I ignored it. Also her trying to get him to break up with me. There's a previous post.

To put a cherry on top of this cake she has had another man for 5 years!! Wtf! She has other baby daddies she doesn't ask all this help from.

I'm at a point where I just dont know if the juice is worth the squeeze. To his credit he has taken a big step back but I'm just so pissed.

This is not specific I know but I need to blow off steam before I say things to people that'll get me in trouble

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oneoffour's picture

If my DH gave his ex $1000 to spend on Christmas gifts for their 2 children I would pack up and live in my daughter's basement. Yeah and drop his arse from my health insurance.

I believe that honesty is the best policy. For your SO: It is OK to continue to hold a torch for your ex and not be married to her. It is your life to waste so waste it slobbering over the 'one that got away'. But do NOT involve anyone else in your life as a full time partner (and not just a booty call. And if it is a booty call, the caller and callee should be both 100% clear on expectations and limits to the relationship). Just don't do it.It is unfair and wastes someone else's life as they wait for you to disengage and start a new improved life with them.