Disrespect!
Bf talks to me like shit sometimes and never says he is sorry, its gotten worse again, we went shopping today and I said why don't you have a coffee while I shop. He says right Im staying in the car, I phoned him from the shop and said please come in you can help me choose a joint for dinner, he shouts no Im staying in the car, I sent him a text telling him to piss off, stop being miserable he says, I told him Im sick of his disrespect and that I will leave unless it changes, what has he done since, sulked and if I know him, he'll sulk for days and then pretend it did'nt happen, Im not letting this go.
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Trust me I won't, he has some
Trust me I won't, he has some lovely qualities which I treasure, but I cannot accept the lack of respect anymore, I have to follow the advice I've given others, I have arranged somewhere to go, I will have to start the converstation as he is sulking.
Coming from someone who has
Coming from someone who has dealt with this FOR TEN YEARS - run, run now. You deserve so much more than that. And he doesn't deserve you.
oh yes I know this all too
oh yes I know this all too well...mine does the same shit to me. If we are grocery shopping and I am in his way or walking too slow, I get yelled at. If I swallow or chew too loud, I get yelled at. If I ask him for his opinion on something he rudely says "I DONT CARE!!"..
oh believe me I tore him a new asshole and now I tell him if Im in your way, YOU move!! If Im walking too slow for you, deal with it! If you don't like how I swallow or chew, leave the room! If I ask for your opinion and you don't want to give it, don't ask me for mine!!
I asked him if all this disrespect is worth throwing the relationship away for because thats exactly what is going to happen. I told him I will not put up with it and I will leave. When he saw me calculating how much it would cost for me to get my own place and leave his ass, he took me seriously. He's been showing improvements since then.
Thank you for all your
Thank you for all your comments, dh had to get up by himself this morning and get sd6 ready, I was sleeping he he. I am going to have it out with him tonight, I did'nt want to last night as sd6 was here, I knew things might get a little noisy.