H gets what he deserves regarding his oldest
SD 23 has not been returning his calls or texts for a few weeks now. Little history, she's been using him for years. When we met she was 15 and the only time she saw him was when he was giving her rides, or taking her shopping or out to eat. Then when she was 16, and got a car and license, it was just for shopping and going out to eat. Around 18, it turned into, she would meet him a few times a year for dinner and he would give her money.and it got less and less. So after a few weeks of not answering his calls and texts, he decides he's just going to stop by her apartment. I don't know what happened, but he said he didn't want to talk about it. By the amount of time he was gone, either she wasn't there or she was there and told him he couldn't come in.
So that is what you get. He spoiled her, put her on a pedestal, allowed he to do whatever she wanted, put her in charge, catered to her.......and now she can't be bothered with him. Good. And just for a finishing touch, for whatever reason, our 2 year old wanted to play independently last night when H got back. Usually he wants daddy in the evening. Not last night. And he didn't want daddy to read him bedtime stories. Like he usually does. He asked for mommy. Now who knows why 2 year olds do what they do, but it was perfect timing. He was really down last night. That's what he gets for not being a father all these years.
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yep! My H is dealing with
yep! My H is dealing with SD18 in the same way. He has babied her and let her run the show and now she wont answer the phone/text when he wants to invite her for Thanksgiving.
My H tires to blame his children's personality defects on their mother and to an extent I agree except for the fact he NEVER tried to parent them either.
I told him a month ago I found out SD18 was caught stealing and it was in the newspaper, and he STILL has not confronted her about it. He texted BM and told her he knew about the stealing and that's why SD is not responding about Thanksgiving. This will probably all come out to be LJC is mean and that's why she didn't come.
My SD only comes around when
My SD only comes around when she wants something
Last time she was here was around her birthday
I can still hear her saying,"Dad! You should buy a house so you have something to leave your children!"
They are kind of estranged ATM due to her in laws treating us abominably which was probably set up by SD in the first place.
My husband doesn't care how nasty they are to me-not his problem and this has been a bone of contention for years
But in the above sitch they went too far and dragged my husband into it
Husband tells SD we'll have nothing to do with her in laws via a phone call.
He called her FIL an asshole
SD was very upset by that. She hates when people draw boundaries and refuse to take abuse from her and her posse.
My husband and I don't discuss it. I'm sure it probably hurts that his daughter is so awful but he created that monster
She'll be around at Christmas to collect her gifts though
And I'll have hell to pay because my daughter and I don't want to be around her
Sometimes it takes so much
Sometimes it takes so much effort for us not to scream Toldja so! doesn't it?
SMH
Similar to my DH and SD23.
Similar to my DH and SD23. If it wasn't for FB, I doubt DH would hear from her for months at a time. We've seen her once this year. We live 45 minutes away. I figure we might see her on Christmas, but who knows. Sad. I don't think DH cares much anymore because we have young children and he enjoys them.