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goaway's picture

Well after my SD being out for 3 months it has been wonderful but my husband had moved out also to be with her we're trying parenting classes and counseling, first i'm going , then husband and I , eventually with her. His lease will be up in August when and if things go well they are coming back to the house. Has anyone been through something similar? Separation then try it again one more time? It's such a confusing period and has put strain on the marriage because of the separation but the only happy one here is her since she doesn't have to share Dad at all. We have a 5 yr old together also. She's a fake 14 yr old.....

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My BF and SD moved out in the fall. We're still trying to make it work. I was the one who wanted the split because I was completely tapped out d/t emotional issues with SD and her mother, who also has some emotional/mental health issues.

We have no plans to live together in the near future...I can't reenter that situation without seeing that things are different with SD and BM...not sure what is going to happen.

Are you happier/less stressed out just you and your biochild? I am happier, since it is more peaceful, but unhappy as I have been living in limbo for six months, unsure what to do, how to try and mend things, whether this is really for me, having misgivings about the relationship...