:? That's me so like I said earlier when I went to the laundrymat and washed we had an embarrassing arguement in front of everyone and so I talked to him real good when we got here I told dh that his attitude says idgaf and I don't like it. We talked I still felt like he didn't hear me and so he dh goes and lays on the couch and sd comes and lays on him I walked into tue room and asked him to take towels downstairs and walked out the room he didn't have a shirt on. He about a minute later comes in the bedroom where I'm at and walks over to me .....and gives me a hug and says I'm sorry for what I said to you referring to our aurgunent on Sunday and today. A real apology and he put his shirt on and he asked me to come join them. When I did come back in their she was laying on his feet ick but maybe that's some more change sigh being disengaged is so very hard.