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Poor SD19 has never had anything "handed" to her.....

DaizyDuke's picture

DH just told me yesterday that SD19 made a comment when she was at our house a couple of weeks ago along the lines of "Well it kinda sucks because I'm sure BS7 will have everything handed to him." WTF you little witch? How quickly you seem to have forgotten all the things that have been handed to you????
$ 600.00 Prom dresses
$ hundreds of dollars for crappy hair dye jobs
$ hundreds of dollars for phones every time you lost, broke or just HAD to have a new one
$ hundreds of dollars for season passes to ski resort that you HAD to have.. and you went ONCE
$ THOUSANDS of dollars that was handed to you because DH is on SSDI yet you have nothing to show for it
$ hundreds of dollars for the latest video games that you always took to BM's and then were never to be seen again
$ hundreds of dollars every Christmas and Birthday that you have nothing to show for
$ hundreds of dollars for sporting gear or lessons because you just HAD to play lacrosse or take karate, or gymnastics and then last a month and quit.
$ THOUSANDS of dollars for new sneakers for every freaking sport, every freaking year and clothes that you left laying in dirty piles all over your room

I could go on and on.. those are just the few that came to my mind. She's lucky I was not there when she made her stupid little statement, because I would have ripped her face off and shoved it up her ass sideways. Ungrateful little snot.

MIL called Saturday and was telling DH that SD told her she is probably not going to take the car of ours that she has been driving while here back to University state with her(that DH was offering to give to her) because she thinks it will make "things tight" if she has to pay for car insurance. Gee, DH told you this 8 months ago when you were concocting this hair-brained idea. You are a college student living in an apartment off campus directly across from University, you don't need a car and you can't afford a car. Guess she thought we were going to foot the bill? NOPE! DH also told her that if he gives her this car that he is not going to send her $150.00 a month anymore. Guess she needs that "HANDOUT"? MIL asked DH if he realized that SD19 is probably leaving on Sunday. He said whatever, he really doesn't care.

MIL also said that BM1 and clan are getting evicted from their apartment. OOOHHH shocker!! It's not like this is a big surprise, these people have never NOT been evicted from where ever they have lived! I can't believe they lasted as long as they did, 10 months is probably a record for them!! MIL is all concerned about SD19's 4 sisters (other baby daddies) WHY?? They are of no relation and no concern to you. You can't care more about them than their own mother does.

UGH. I seriously feel like our Blogs should be made into public service announcements for idiotic young men, who don't wrap their shit up. THIS COULD HAPPEN TO YOU! DON'T BREED WITH TRASH!!!

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DaizyDuke's picture

Right?? I said "Gee, she apparently is not grateful in the least for the FREE car, I guess that's not enough for the princess, she always has to have more" UGH

zerostepdrama's picture

Yes!

DaizyDuke's picture

He really could care less about her sob story, especially after she told him that she's spent over $1,000.00 on her sisters in the last 2.5 months while she's been here and MIL has been telling us that SD has been spending money like it's water and she has no clue where it is coming from and asked her once but SD got snippy with her, so she let it go. Whatever, SD has a job, it's her money. Squander away... but don't cry poverty and expect anyone to feel sorry for you when you say things are going to be "tight"

DaizyDuke's picture

I seriously thought about that! Remember she created that GoFund me for GBM funeral expenses, before the woman was even gone?? If I remember correctly she only got about $1,000.00 of the $5,000 she was going for.. but I kind of wondered if maybe she pocketed it??? But I think there would have been a lot of fighting and bickering with BM1 and siblings about it and we would have caught wind of it. But who knows??

notasm3's picture

"Well it kinda sucks because I'm sure BS7 will have everything handed to him."

Suggested reply: Yup he has a decent mother.

DaizyDuke's picture

Exactly what I said... sorry I have a good paying job and don't squander my money on drugs and gambling and Lord knows what else and sorry I am a responsible mother and actually put BS7 SSDI money and birthday money etc into a savings account for him. So yep, he already has enough money to go a 4 year state college and by the time he's 16 will have more than enough to buy a car etc. But that is HIS money, we're not "handing" it to him, simply managing it for him until such time that he is old enough to do so. And sorry, I'm a decent person and couldn't live with myself if I blew money that belonged to my CHILD!

..and old timers will remember that the 2 years that SD was living with us, DH was handing her the SSDI money every month which she was promptly blowing on crap. Just in the those 2 years, she could have saved over $5,000.00. But funny how that works... when you are actually HANDED shit all the time, you have no respect or care for it.

thinkthrice's picture

Yep you are a REAL parent. SD= give them an inch and they will take a mile.

Speaking of spending money that was meant for your child, maybe it is time we remind the gir hippo that she blew through all 3 of their college funds before the ink was dry on the divorce.

DaizyDuke's picture

Oh and I don't know if you all remember me telling you that SD thought she was going to get some retro money from SSDI, because they screwed up the calculations with DH's comp the past 7 years? She thought she was going to get around $6,000.00 but according to DH, she is getting nothing because GBM (who was SD's payee except for the 2 years she was living with us) took out 2 secret "loans"?? against her SSDI?? I have never heard of such a thing and had no clue people could do that, but that's what DH said Social Security told Aunt J. :?

NeedaFunDay's picture

"Don't breed with trash..."

Lol. Love this! Well said.

Acratopotes's picture

Don't send her the list, it's going to be a waste of time..... instead ensures she hears stories of what BS gets...

oh the nice things he gets, brand clothing, go to a shop, take pictures when he fits it on, put it back and then post the pictures lol.....

I would so play with this little girl she will never contact me again, nor any one else in the house for that matter.

See she believes her father is paying for your child, nothing you say or do will change her belief... might as well play with it