mmmm ok, BM normally doesnt do many crazy things to me. She normally ignores me or the dirty looks etc the normal BM moves im sure. Which is totally fine by me as we have little or NO contact at all and its suits me just fine.

She has had about 5 bfs since FDH and her have split. Most from the internet. So she has them maybe a months tops and introduces them to the kids and they get all close and then 2 months later they arent allowed to talk about him anymore as they have broken up. So she has a new BF and 3 weeks after meeting she invited him to sleep over and open Christmas presents with her and the kids!!! the kids calls us at 7.10am asking to come over early to our house as some random guy is there spending xmas morning with them.

i was going out with FDH for 5 months before i was "allowed" to even meet the kids.. and was going out for over a year before i even had a sleep over with them there! So after 6 months of dating she and the BF are moving to together. BTW she is still living in FDH for FREE, and her new bf is jobless.. makes my blood boil

so of course FDH was concerned some random guy is living in his house and moving in with his kids. So BM offered to get a police check and working with childern check for him. .

THEN ASKED FOR ME TO PROVIDE THE SAME! mmmmm we have been living together over 18months! and a girl moving in with kids and a random guy off the internet moving in are VERY different things!

after everything i have done for her kids and caused no problems and respected her wishes and all that! she friggen asks me for a working with childern card and police check!!!