Fury
Hell hath no fury like me at this moment.
I am on my way to a wedding and before leaving the house went to get my driver lience from my favourite bag - partner bought it for me while we were away.
I went to pick it up and discovered the handle and side where sticky - on closer inspection someone has split something sticky (my bet is on coke) over the bag. It has gotten onto the inside and all my stuff was sticky as well!
And of course no one said anything and no one cleaned it up- the level on the inside is so much I have to consider this is deliberate
I have texted partner cause he is at work I want to know who did it why they didn't say anything if it was an accident why they didn't clean it up. I want an apology and it cleaned completely inside and out- should that not happen I want it replaced
I love that bag. That bag is precious to me. I am fuming but will park it for later - I am not going to let this ruin the wedding for my friends !
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i suggest you keep quiet, not
i suggest you keep quiet, not a word about this, and start locking up your stuff.....
I can bet ya it was not an accident, it was done on purpose and yes I'm a black harted SM }:)
My adult exSD routinely
My adult exSD routinely stole, and ruined mine, my exSO’s and other SD’s stuff. My exSO’s solution? “Let’s not buy anything nice until she moves out”.
I eventually left. That’s not the way to live. Sorry you are dealing with it. In my case it never got better, only worse. Fast forward 3 and a half years and I am happily married now and exSD still lives with exSO. She is 28 now. Never moved out
If you two are not married, maybe start thinking if that’s how you want to live.
That's crazy! So the exSD
That's crazy! So the exSD was 24 or 25 and living at home while you were with the exSO? What a mess.
I'd agree that if you're not married, it's time to take a hard look at how the future will be.
Yes. It was my first
Yes. It was my first stepfamily rodeo on steptalk. Under a different name. It was a nightmare. She moved first back in the area and was with us “visiting” 4-5 days a week and then moved in. We were together total 8 years but I only survived a year with her living with us. I was out. With help of steptalk
SD13 (then around 10) went on
SD13 (then around 10) went on a destruction binge against me one night.
Scrub cleaner in my side of the bed, nail polish in my book (luckily not damaged too badly just a couple pages stuck together I could unstick) and some other random things. DH was furious and it's one of the only times I ever saw him really get on SDs about. He made them clean everything up and apologize that evening even though it was late (he got them out of bed - SD then 8, too).
I didn't discover it until later but older SD had also tried to put nail polish all over one side and part inside my expensive leather bag. It didn't stick for whatever reason and I didn't notice right away because it wasn't that noticeable - I told DH about it and told him that if I had seen THAT damage that night I would have completely and utterly lost it and he would have been buying me a new $$ bag to replace it. I still use it to this day and I know SDs have guilt so let them see it as much as possible.