Where do I begin? Pre wedding( 2010ish) my then boyfriend of one year ex contacted me via social media to tell me she and he have been "engaging" for the past year we had been together.,she said times when he'd pick the daughter up, or drop her off- before/after work, etc. she said she was hurt so we all needed to hurt. I was crushed and vulnerable. Lacking self worth. Long story short I forgave, he "picked me" right? Fast forward nearly TEN years. We've been married 6.5 years now. I just found out that he and her cheated again right after our wedding around 6 years ago.

I've been doing this step mom thing for 3 years and I've been married for 2, after 3 miscarriages, my husband and I are now 25 weeks with our first daughter together. Long story short, my SD wants to be involved in EVERYTHING. While I'm respectful to them, wash their clothes, make them food, etc, we are not close and I do not enjoy their company so you can imagine her wanting to be at the freaking birth AND my baby shower really puts a damper on my mood. My husband has yet to tell her no to these things and it is so frustrating.

Does anyone else ever feel jealousy towards the biological mom of their stepchild?