Here goes...

I need help!

new marriage, second for us both.

my kids 21/24 self sufficient no probs!  I raised them with manners, expectations and respect.

my so, kids 11/14.

11 yr old...

pushes boundaries constantly, does whatever he wants.  No consequence for actions.  He gets more and more and more.  He swears, has access 24/7 to any social media and has accounts.  Has made in appropriate comments online.  Guess what? Still has his phone!