I am 25 and nearly engaged to a 31 year old with two kids, SS4 SS7. We have them 50/50. He is my dream guy, I love him too pieces, and him me. But I didn't want to date him because he has kids, but I did. At first he was pushing the step mom thing on me really hard! "Is this how you would treat your kids?" He'd always ask when I try to remove myself from whatever activity they are engaged in, or when I avoided the guys he'd force on me by them.  (I'm not a hugger to any person) but I explained how it was all too much and he agreed and apologized..

<p>So I&#39;ve been married to my husband for yrs. He has 2 kids, one he raised and one that is biologically his both by the same woman. There have been so many issues in throughout our dating and marriage that I&#39;m ready to get divorced at least 3 time a month. Most recently his bio daughter came to live with us after she was removed from her mother. It&#39;s been an up hill battle since then. I&#39;ve tried to explain the trauma she has been through to both her and her father in Hope&#39;s that it will begin the healing process.

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and he has two kids. His ex wife and him had a nasty divorce and plus the aunt is involved too. I have try helping, hell there was days the kids did eat if I didn't buy them food. I have been accused of beating the kids but now they're spending the night at my house because their dad and I live together. I have certain rules and stuff I want done because of the way I was raised and he wants to be the fun dad. We get them every other Sunday and we started getting them one weekend out of the month.