So! I don't have any children of my own but I imagined what type of mother I would be and what I expect of them. I am 30 yrs old and I'm trying to create a smooth operating environment before my potential child gets here. I'm trying my best because I love my boyfriend and I don't want this to be the end of our relationship but he is not hearing me out! Long story short they are 15-16 and I have never saw them take the trash out. The leave plates of food in the sink instead of rinsing them and putting them in our GOOD QUALITY DISHWASHER!