An update to my blog from a week ago (linked below):

https://www.steptalk.org/blog/stepultimate/freedom-272617

On Valentine's day (Monday this week), my attorney emailed STBXH stating all communication should be via my attorney. STBXH tried saying that was unnecessary but my attorney politely but firmly shut that down. 

SO. AWESOME.

Came here to post a quick update on the divorce.

I filed & paid my taxes tonight from my old TurboTax account. TurboTax alerted STBXH, who has not yet done his taxes, and he emailed me asking if that was me (yes) and if I filed joint or separate (separate, DUH), and wrote, "I know you are upset, but we have some unfinished business. Please contact me, so we can tie up these loose ends."