So since I had a baby and currently on maternity leave, all of the responsibility has fallen on me to do the school run for my SD, this is something that was never agreed but just kinda left for me to do. We live a three min walk from the school and I don't feel it necessary to take her and pick her up as she is now 10 years old and most of her classmates walk on their own. We did this for a little bit on the weeks we had her and her mother has told her she isn't allowed as she will get kidnapped which infuriated me as she is putting fear into her when this is very unlikely to happen.

SS worked Saturday evening from 5 to 10.   Came home with dinner and went to bed.  He was up relatively early on Sunday monring which was a surprise.   When his dad and I went to lunch I suggested perhaps SS would like to join us since he missed out on going to lunch with his dad to celebreate his birthday.