Through all the silent treatments with unresolved issues and no communication. I think i am ready to call it quits. I am sleeping in my daughters room right now because my step son and husband choose to ignore me like im just this stranger now. My husband has been snooping in my phone ( i keep it unlocked because i know he would feel like i am keeping him from something) and found out that i have been talking to my ex. He is married and he had texted me for a referral.
It is common knowledge that many of us have been victims/survivors of domestic violence.
Do you remember what the point was, or what someone else said to you that finally convinced you that your abuser’s actions toward you are not ok, and that you should leave?
For me, it was my abuser showing a lack of disregard for my child that prompted me to leave (I don’t care what you do to me, but don’t mess with my kid). It was only after I left that I gained the self esteem necessary to not tolerate abuse from anyone anymore.
It has been such a long time since I've posted anything about HCBM, but as HCBM's usually go, it never lasts, does it?
This time it's about trying to control how we parent skids when they are with us - specifically in the areas of diet and exercise - I'm sorry, I almost choked on those words, because.... THIS coming from a 350 lb.+ pill head HCBM just seems so crazy that I'm still trying to wrap my brain around it.
It's been a while since I've discussed skids here, so for background info: