Hi. I'm new, this is my first post. I'm married with 4 SK's and one biological son with DH. Our son is 9, SK's are 29, 31 and a set of 33 year old twins. All female. The youngest 2 are married with kids and are doing fairly well. The twins are not. They dropped out of school at 16 and it's been downhill ever since. DH and I have been married for 17 years. When we met, he had custody of the 2 youngest, his ex had the twins. I really don't know where to begin. The twins lived with us briefly but left because they did not like my DH's rules. This was when they were around 18-19.

I recently married my DH of three years.  We moved in two months before getting married.  I have one daughter that is 10 and he has three daughters that are 22,20 and 13.  There little sister -8 (ex-wifes daughter) also comes along to from time to time too.  My issue is with the eldest two still coming every weekend from Friday to Sunday.  We live in a two bedroom apartment that gets really cramped.  When they all come its six of us in tight space with one bathroom.

So I never posted an update to DH kicking SS18.5 out; partly because I’ve been slammed at work (massive overtime), exhausted emotionally AND due to waking up with hot-flashes at 4:00am then not being able to go back to sleep… burnt out. But I have a brief window of time alone and need to write this out.