Last time SS couldn't come on visitation because he was sick. BF said that when he talked to SS on the phone he really sounded genuinely sick, so I thought nothing of it. BM agreed to let him come extra to make up for it. This time, however, BF drove all the way out to get him and when he got there SS told him he didn't want to come. We received no phone call, no email, no message whatsoever to call before he went out there. When he came back without his son he tried to be positive but I could tell he was crushed.
We got a letter in the mail Saturday for a child support review. In your personal experiences, has the support increased all the time? This is the first review for us. When the order was first enforced was when they divorced. Now...our situation is this...married to me of course, I have two girls from prev. marriage and my ex sends about $300 month support for my 2 girls, and of course I'm sure like others, we live from paycheck to paycheck. Even though my ex sends $300 support that does not cover much for them.
The birthday party went great! We had enough of everything we needed (one child did not show up). They had a great time…getting them to sing loud was like pulling teeth, some of them acted really shy…but after the “competition” was over, they were on the microphone LOUD as can be…LOL…they all spent the night, boys and girls (ages 5-7) my husband slept in the front room with the boys and I slept in the back room with the girls…they stayed up telling stories and I know the girls didn’t go to sleep until after 1:30 AM!!!
SD & fiance came by to pick up thier dog, yesterday...we were doggy-sitting. Her Dad was working...but they stayed to visit with me & my kids. She brought coffee for me, too.
Things have really been great since our blow-up and subsequent discussions this summer.
Her sister is giving her a hard time over wedding plans....everything she likes, dress styles or colors, music, table settings...you name it. SISTER HATES IT!!! Youngest is already getting pretty stressed out and the wedding isn't until summer.
When girls don't put out!!
This was written by a guy... it's pretty damn smart.
Girls -- Have a sense of humor!
I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart.
One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed.
Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says, "I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me."
Yesterday was transition day for my BF's son to go back to his mother's house. Since there was no school, he got picked up from our home. I haven't had any issues with our home being the pick up location, as long as there is no BS that goes along with it. BUT, yesterday has changed my perspective on things. My BF's ex was waiting outside of our home a half hour before the pick-up time. She knows very well that he will not be released into her custody until the pick-up time which is 4:00pm.
Why does she even call if she doesn't have anything to say? She's called twice this morning already. I didn't pick up the phone, and she didn't leave a message. We've received no emails from her either. Why even call? She obviously didn't have anything important to say or she would have left a message or sent it through email.
Well I'm sorry to say that I am here on Friday night at 9:52PM typing my very sad story because the f#$%$%$$ BM pulled her shit again! It's just unbelievable, and the worst thing is that I just knew it was freakin' gonna happen this way.
Well I want to thank you for your comments and kind words of encouragement. I have tried to get him to go away with me for a weekend and he refuses, he says it won't help anyway. I talked with my husband tonight and asked him "what are we doing?" I miss him terribly and love him so much and he stated tonight that he wants a divorce. Such a blow. I wish he would go to counseling or something but no, he said he doesn't believe in counseling and said he just doesn't care anymore.
Is there a site available to vent about divorce or separation issues, similiar to this one? Thanks