See bio's and steps have issues somewhat alike on a lot of issues....including "do it yourself" home dye jobs!
I appreciate all those who wrote to me with their suggestions on how to fix this flaming red hair I will live with throughout the upcoming holiday season..... Posts and private messages alike were informational and some very humorous! Especially “Happy” who even shared her story of multicolored experiences. The pretty shade of light blue was most laughable. Thank you for that….
This is breaking my heart. On the last visitation BM called SS SIX times. We have caller ID so he knows when it's her calling. When he sees that it's her he gets this defeated look on his face and sometimes says something like "gosh it's my mom AGAIN". When he's talking to her it's "no...no...nooooo...NO MOM" and we know she's asking him questions about me. He's gotten so frustrated with her that sometimes he'll put her on speakerphone so that we can hear the nasty things she's saying to him.
Tomorrow the SD and SS are to come up for Turkey day. Another attempt of the ex as she sends two police officers to my door stating that we are abusing her son. This abuse consisted of one spanking 3 years ago and a slap to the face for slapping his 3 year old sister in the face for what he said, "she wasn't moving fast enough." That happened in June. Now in Novemeber one day before the kids are to be here, she files a police report. Am I the only one that finds this a little crazy? THere is a definite difference between abuse and discipline.
Yes, we'll be welcoming a new addition to the family this July! So Skye22, if you've been wondering why I've been so interested in your pregnancy, it's because I was trying to work out a way to introduce this idea to BM and to SD11 as well. I wanted to learn from your experience.
Okay so last night my husband went to biomom’s uncle’s house to try to reason with her…she LIED about everything.
I want to know why biomom emails my husband on updates/schedule regarding ss and does not cc me on it? I too watches him, you would think you would let that person know too. I want to know why she is eliminating me out of the picture? It's been 6 yrs now and I have watched her son all through these years. What is her real feelings towards me?
At age 4 success is . . . not peeing in your pants.
At age 12 success is . . .having friends.
At age 17 success is . . . having a drivers license.
At age 35 success is . . . having money.
At age 50 success is . . .having money.
At age 70 success is . . . having a drivers license.
At age 75 success is . . . having friends.
At age 80 success is . . . not peeing in your pants.
Another morning funny from my friend
18 yo SD, away at college, wrote email to dh last night stating she won't be coming home for tday. He called her this a.m. to say he'd pick her up and bring her home. Shortly thereafter he got the "insistant" email with a bunch of lame excuses.
The writing is on the wall for me. I know that kids at her age pull away, but this is the holidays. Even the worst kids come on then. She is just so completely selfabsorbed and selfish.
I really love this whole season. Thanksgiving and Christams and the snow and all the yummy food and family gathering. But darn it... I really get tired of all these events having to be planned according to some court ordered hoildays setup! Half the time we don't even get to celebrate the hoilday on the actual day and its getting old. I want to include my ss, I really do but sometimes I just feel like my son is getting a crappy deal. We have another baby on the way and I really want to have a normal christmas morning for them, the way I did. I'm sorry, I'm just venting.
Well I'm happy to be writing this to you on Monday and not crying in my soup. This was the SS birthday party weekend that myself and BF were having. The "X" didn't pull anything stupid and I'm really happy to say that we were able to take the kids right after hockey on Saturday morning and kept them until hockey on Sunday night. We did a ton of stuff and then the party on Sunday afternoon was a success. All the family came and the cousins all played together and they all had a ball and SS was so excited. I couldn't have asked for a better weekend.