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sd and her stupid shoes!!!

glam-mom's picture

sd bd and bs (and myself) went shopping. sd needed school shoes so my boyfriend gave her 60 bucks so pick some up. we went to tj maxx an she had no luck. we went to the mall, we went to tradehome shoes and she found a pair she really liked and i said "well lets go to some other places and see if u can find a pair u like even better?"

no more "well how would u feel" questions...

glam-mom's picture

so alot of u have given me some great advice on my last blog but im still strapped for answers and have more questions.... when i notice his kids doing something "naughty" he gets upset and yells but if my bd does something naughty and shes younger than all his children she gets yelled at and sent to her room and even the tone in his voice is dif... almost like he has more tolerance for his own... im not sure.

I thought that this site was a place for undersanding not bashing!

vgill's picture

I have come here when I really need to get a few things off my chest with out taking it out on my family and to look for support and understanding, and for the most part I have recieved support, understanding, and great advice. But I have also got alot of critcism for my views towards my Skids.

Step talk has been a Godsend

Bface's picture

I am so glad to have found this site. It was by chance and in a time of desperation about a week ago. I have so, so much studying to do for grad school tomorrow and I would be worrying about this all day. This opportunity to vent, will hopefully limit the time I'll be thinking about this painful situation. Thanks again to everyone for your advise and support. I will return the favor...

FYI re: SD29

Bface's picture

I have been dealing with her entitlement issues for years. I didn't speak up until she began hurting GD with us as the weapon. I was livid! She also considers herself the most important woman in her father's life and that I must take a backseat, while she, "the queen", gets all of her financial needs met. He allowed her to move into his nice 3 BR ranch at a low rental rate when he moved in with me. She trashed the place and moved out 'cause she didn't want him telling her to maintain important things.

Blowout with SD29 ends in "no more seeing granddaughter"!

Bface's picture

SD has verbally abused and manipulated DH for many years. Four years ago she had a child by a man who went back to his wife and and left her a single mother. He has nothing to do with his daughter. More and more SD is using GD to get what she wants from DH. She is also a drama queen who must have a social life with a lot of attention from anyone and everyone. This leads to a necessity for her to have GD stay overnight at GP's homes nearly every weekend.

O/T my job sucks

quippers01's picture

The only time I like going to work laately is when SD is visiting and that's only because it's less stressful to be at work than at home.

My job? Security for a motel in a shady city. The kind of place where the locals think it's a good place to party cuz it's cheap. There is a large mix of guests from junkies and hookers to families vacationing on a budget and people with pets cuz we are one of the only pet friendly places in the area.

he just doesnt get it... im not selfish!!!

glam-mom's picture

when i first met my boyfriend we were wonderful. i knew he had 3 children but they werent in his life til about a year and a half after we met. i thought i was ready and could handle it... but i was so jealous and resentful an i felt taken advantage of. my boyfriend didnt understand i think he was so excited to be with his kids and make up for lost time it was all them and i didnt matter at least thats how i felt. its been 3 years now that ive been a step mom and nothing has change.

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