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WHERESMYWART's picture

My BS10 just allowed his mommy (ME) to know he has a girlfriend for the first time ever in his life. He is in fifth grade and she is in seventh. He is big for his age but part of me is going thats my baby and the other part of me is going, way to go! LOL.

BM called again - what if I just leave the country and leave SS16 here?

LizGrace65's picture

So SS ran out in April, and BM took him. BM called in less than a month begging SO to pick up SS because she couldn't handle him. SO agreed, and BM said she had been wrong to let SS run to her to escape the rules with SO. SS stayed about 7 weeks, then ran to BM again - having prearranged it with her. SO has now detached from both of them, telling BM that since she and SS proactively went behind SO's back to plan this really bad decision (BM can't provide him with the structure he needs, not even his basic needs are guaranteed to be met with her), that BM and SS are on their own.

VENTING...about it all!!!

zenjetset's picture

To say that I am tired is an understatement. I am a zombie on the break of dawn and I am unsure if I can make it!!

By now everyone knows the drama last week and the continuation of such. Me and FDH are on the brink of what...your guess is as good as mine.

He is the more laid back, not start a fight, let's wait and see, why make waves, type of guy. Though his other side, is the I am pissed you pissed me off and I am done. (yes, from 0 to 90 in 20 seconds or less)!!!

Tired of "Internalizing" and "Taking One for the Team" to make peace!

kr500lover's picture

I have only posted once on this blog, but always have read this site because of the different approaches and how everyone handles their "blended families". Over the past two years, there have been ups and downs with my SS and I have weathered the storm but things have gotten progressively worse and I feel like I am alone on an island and my support is minimal. I had a family member who I turned to quite often up to this point and they were able to help me as I moved along the "teen years" journey with my SS.

OT: SCORE! Got great deals on a suit and flower girl dress!

SteppingUp's picture

We're getting married next summer, and I've been on the lookout for great deals. I bought a 3-piece suit for SS3 from someone on Craigslist for $5 and a flower girl dress at a second hand store for $15!!! I am amazed! Both skids have tried them on and they have plenty of room to grow.

So this means I can go buy the wedding dress that I want that is $1000 rather than the $750 one...right? }:)

Lightening it up! :P

Couldawouldashoulda's picture

Hey all, Just wanted to let you know that I'm really glad I found this site for all the much needed info, opinions and commiseratings. But more importantly.....This site contains some of the funniest people, best quotes, names and writings I have ever seen! So, here's one for you guyz that always makes me laugh and lightens me up:

TRUE LOVE
If you love something, set it free.
If it comes back, it will always be yours.
If it doesn't come back,
it was never yours to begin with.

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