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That stupid b*tch is trying to ruin my life

jwkstepmom's picture

LK is my husbands ex wife she is the meanest most vidictive woman i have ever met in my entire life... she never spends anytime with her son and only has him live with her for the money that she recieves from child support and now she is asking for more! I cant believe it she makes 50,000 dollars a years plus gets 400 a month from my husband and is still asking for more.

What the heck!

hardatwork's picture

Well, it has been 3 years since we have tried to blend this family and SS10 has no intention of ever being respectful or helpful. It is not like I ask anything of this child. Maybe very basic things like, wash your hands after the restroom, which I do not understand why in the world you wouldn't want to wash your hands!! It is just ridiculous that I have to tell him to wash his hands everytime he comes out of the restroom.

Room and Board contract

chopliver58's picture

Does anyone know where I can locate a room and board contract? I'm charging SD $75 a month room and board and she thinks it's gives her cart blanche to do as she pleases. I want to set the record straight for her - i told her today I'll write one up and she has a choice - she can agree to it or find someplace else to live!!

Was awakened badly... not too great a mood now.

N8tiveButt3rfly's picture

Sometimes I feel as though my Husband thinks his daughter is perfect and it makes me SO angry! I'll be the first to admit that my BC are not by any means perfect and I'm sure that they annoy both my husband and my SD9 sometimes. My BC are just so different from my husband and his daughter, especially my boys. My husband and his daughter are the quiet, laid back type who are usually fine if they're just left alone to play video games or watch Spongebob. My BS8 and BS4 are honest boys and like to wrestle and well... be BOYS.

Had it out with BM part deux (or should it be part Duhhh!! Long sorry too much to tell)

Stick's picture

DH and I had set up a meeting with SD's therapist and BM to discuss SD's college. DH was only in town for 2 days so we had to do it on one of those 2 days - bummer. We did it with SD's therapist because SD has so many issues with her mom and because BM might not listen to DH and I, but she may to SD's doctor.

I give up

quippers01's picture

I am just so sad and I don't think I can keep trying to make this work. I'm tired. So very tired. I didn't want to believe that I could hate a child. I convinced myself that my problem was how H parented his kid. It was guilty daddy parenting and made things worse but I have discovered that it wasn't the cause of my feelings. This child is a walking talking reminder of all the times my feelings and needs were ignored in favor of keeping BM happy. When H left her he forgot to pack his balls and I paid the price. So many incidents that I can't let go of.

more into our "talk"

step-mommy dearest's picture

well... i finally told SO that when SD4 is there I dont feel like a "family" I feel as tho Im the 3rd wheel. He dont make her listen most of the time and he bitched about sittin at the table like a family... but then gets mad at me if i wanna go see a friend for a few hours bc he thought we would all spend time together.. like a "family". I think we have 2 different meanings of the word "family"

Could I please ask some advice for my SD9?

N8tiveButt3rfly's picture

I've learned a lot today. I called my sister and told I'm sorry for leaving her to take care of 5 children that aren't even hers and I thanked her for being good to them and asked her if it is at possible that she and I can try to have at least a semblance of a relationship again and she told me she's willing if I am... so there's one down and it's thanks to good advice from here soooooo, onto my next challenge.

when to be rid of the baby monitor?

krenee86's picture

I'd just like to know at what age is it safe or okay to ditch the baby monitor? I SS is almost 3 he can climb in and out of bed safely and can turn his own bedroom light on etc.. my guy keeps the monitor on full blast and still rarely hears him when he wakes up as it is. I'm the one who hears him with or without the monitor on.

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