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Hurt, Pissed Off, Disgusted...Yep, That About Covers It!

CrystalRE's picture

My bio-daughter babysat the SK's today as there was no school and DH and I both had to work. She had trouble with them arguing all day long (pretty typical with the SK's) so she called me at work to talk to me about it. When I talked to DH at lunch I mentioned the issue and he said we would discuss it when we got home.

Mother's friend lol

MARLA_823's picture

I took my SD to a neurologist appt a few weeks ago and BM met us up there. Even though BM and I do NOT get along, we are very well at playing nice in front of SD. Anyways the Dr. asks all sorts of questions about history and types it up. When we get the mailed copy of the report that was sent to the pediatrician, I'm reading the report to make sure it's accurate. Imagine how I felt to read "patient is brought in today accompanied by her mother and mother's friend." MOTHER'S FRIEND?? Geez I get NO recognition! LOL!! At least I know how believable our friendly act is! LMAO!

I am lucky!!

purpledaisies's picture

My skids do not ignore me and they joke with me and love it. This sunday when we picked them up youngest will be 11 on wed. so I asked him what he wanted. he kept going around the bush finally I told him that we wouldn't see him before his bday and we needed to get it that night and if he rather have the money or what. He said he wanted this game so I looked it up on my phone to see how much it was and it jsut came out not even a month ago.

Skids called to wish DH a Happy B-Day...

poisonivy's picture

they left a message because he was in class...

I listened to the message and could hear BM in the background,
"tell your daddy he's getting old."

WTH????????????????????????????????????

Since when are we trading good-humored jabs? We don't like you like that, skank.....

:sick:

I thought I should call back and say "he may be getting older but you're getting uglier, B$@^H!!!!!!!!!!"

A Ray of Hope?

mmmpork's picture

SO talked to his lawyer about the GAL report. His lawyer is pretty decent, knows the court system well and is a pretty neutral guy. He gives pretty good advice based on what is realistic to expect from the court and typically his reactions are in line with how a commissioner will see the situation. In addition, he knows the commissioners by name and knows their biases. He's not the greatest lawyer in the world but he's decent and gets the job done.

When is it enough

runforthedoor's picture

My SS is not a child - he is 23 years old acts 12 (and I am being generous) but his father falls right in line and waits on him hand and foot. He lives with us (not by my choice) does not go to school, does not work, does not clean up after himself and has 2 cats in the garage ( was supposed to be for a day or two but now over a year) that he does not take care of. But don't worry - his father does EVERYTHING for him. He pays for his car, car insurance, cell phone, gives him $100 a week for spending money.

Stressed out!! Panic attacks and now sightings!!!

zenjetset's picture

I had a major panic attack last night while dh and I argued about stupid bm. It was a very bad ending to a very bad weekend. A weekend that SD11 made impossible to enjoy but contantly beating her sister6. Including tipping over the lounge chair while the child was laying there and the outcome -- a cut above her eye.

Then, today I've had two sightings of my x who terrorized me for 2 years and attempted to kill me! Not that he was actually here, just that my brain is thinking so because of all the stress sd11 has me feeling.

"Being a dad is so hard..." *sigh*

AlexandraL's picture

Have you ever heard this out of your man's mouth?

I am still friends with my exbf and after having his daughter over the weekend he was saying how hard it is, that he was in need of a break, etc. I know my kids are older than his daughter (teens) but I've been caring for them alone AND working full time since they were the much younger.

Tell me, how can taking care of ONE child half time so much harder than taking care of TWO kids full time? I seriously don't understand.

How do you ignore?

Willow2010's picture

Pardon me if I sound like a whiny baby, but I am working off very little sleep and too much booze from the weekend. And no, that is not a normal thing for me. We had out of town guest and it was a great fun weekend, but I am not used to doing that at all. Feel like I could sleep standing up right now and may never want to see beer again.

Anyway. I need to find a way to not let this kid get under my skin so bad! How? How? How?

I disengaged, so I don’t care if he fails, breaks curfew, sleeps around and all that kind of stuff. NMKNMP.

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