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out of ideas's picture

Need help making our family work...I'm about to turn 30 and my husband is 49. He's got a 19yr old son and I've got a 9yr old son and 7yr old daughter. The boys are mouthy and its a constant battle between them. Any ideas on what to do???

stepmisery's picture

What are the points of contact for the boys? With that age gap, they shouldn't be around each other much, esp the 19yo. Doesn't the 19yo work, go to school, or is otherwise basically out of the house all day?

It would help to give some examples of what is going on.