Im so glad I found this site, Ive been needing something like this. Ive dealt with my Husbands ex-wife for far too long. This is absolutely, the hardest thing i have ever done in my life. This is my first time being a Step-Parent, and dealing with an Ex. Im also an Ex-Wife, but I get along great with my ex husbands wife, she is awesome, and she loves my kids. I got really lucky in that aspect. I also respect her, for what she does. Thats something I dont get from my husbands ex. She doesnt see me as a good person or a great step mom, she sees me as an enemy. Now I see her as the same. I have never ever met anyone like her, she is truely evil, and very jealous, its so pathetic. I didnt start out hateing her, she made me hate her. She finds fault in everything I do, no matter what. Why cant she just see that I love her child, and treat him as my own when he is here? She doesnt have to like me, she just has to respect me. She doesnt respect herself, so i guess Im asking too much. I really believe in Karma, and one day, she will get hers. I take great comfort in knowing that no one else likes her either. I really kind of feel sorry for her, she must be a miserable person inside, to cause so much pain for others. All I can do is continue to be myself, and do whats good for all parties concerned. Im a happy person all of the time, and I refuse to let her get to me anymore. What a huge burden was lifted from me, when i took that step!! Shes remarried now, and also makes his ex miserable. She just cant get along with anyone, except a few choice people that dont mean anything to anyone else either. I wish i knew more on how jealous people think, so i can see why she is, the way she is. Maybe I should research that more?? LOL.