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lovin-life's picture

Well..my X was supposed to pick up the 10 yr old for his weekend visit. Through the child, I was informed on Tuesday that x would be picking him up Thursday morning....2 days notice..

At the door ... x tells 10 yr old ..to take his bike..they're going away for 2 weeks!!!!

My hubby called me at work yesterday to tell me my son would not be returning home for 2 weeks

I was not informed..there was no arrangments made or notices given..the kid has 4 days worth of clothes ... to last him 2 weeks.

I called x last night....his phone was shut off!!!!

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lovin-life's picture

My 13 yr old...knew he was going to pull a fast one. He gave her 5 different stories....about his plans...she refused to go with him..she doesn't trust him.

Her provincial ball tournament is next weekend..
First he says to her ...your ruining our camping plans..why do have to go to the tournament anyway. (If it's not important to him..it shouldn't be important to anyone else!!)
Then...we're just going away for this weekend..I'll have you back on Sunday
Then..we're going for a week at one point to her..
Same day..we're going for the weekend to her brother...
Now...apparently ...it's 2 full weeks..

The world revovles around him..what's convenient for him..forget any consideration for anyone else!!

I wasn't home but apparently X called her out into the front yard..to try to convince her to go with him. After two weeks to think it over..he had made up yet another version of events he tried to convince her to believe..about their fight last weekend... She accused him of being a liar..AGAIN!!

Like all this isn't stressful enough...He was supposed to provide Child-support checks...gave me some excuse about why he only gave me two...which are long gone...now he's skipped town..

I'm glad some people get vacations....I haven't had one in 3 years!!
I'll be scrounging to make my mortgage payment next week.....hope the bastard has a great vacation!!!!!!!!

lovin-life's picture

He's basically kidnapped my son.. He's taken him for two weeks without my knowledge...consent...or any notification....!!!!!! AND he can't be reached by phone.....he's shut his phone off!! I should call the cops!!!

Nise's picture

Lovin-life

Do you know where they went/who they are with? Maybe you can try to get in contact with someone else on the trip (i.e. girlfriend, ex-mother in law, etc…) and have them put your ex on the phone and tell him that you are contemplating calling the authorities. Or call the camp grounds main office and have someone there get your ex on the phone ASAP! Are you the custodial parent or do you have shared custody?

Nise's picture

I know you are pissed but let me ask you this and be honest with yourself…are you afraid for your son’s safety with your ex (i.e. do you think he is capable of kidnapping him with plans for you never to see him again?) or are you just really PISSED OFF (and rightfully so!!!) If you are truly afraid, I say alert the authorities…if not, don’t do anything too drastic b/c it will flip your son out if the cops come pick him up and take him away from dad….kinda traumatic….but LAY INTO HIM (the ex) when you reach him and tell him that if he pulls crap like that again you will call the authorities and file something with the courts

lovin-life's picture

He's supposed to go to his GF's family reunion for the weekend. I'm guessing he's heading to his mothers after that....both 4-5 hours away. I have defacto custody..I have no court order.

Your right....I'm really pissed!!!! I don't think he's in danger and it would just cause trauma to my son.

BUT I'M getting so fed up. Why do I ALWAYS have to be the reasonable one!!!!!! WITH BOTH STUPID X's.

He just waves the red flag in my face...time & time again...pushing me further & further...for what reason!!!

What was the point of taking my son for 2 weeks without notifying ME!!!

It's a phone call...an e-mail!!!

Maybe he's trying to provoke me..into doing something stupid out of anger!!

Your Right...I have to calm down....I can't let him do that!!

I'm just so furious...!!! Why take the child and not tell the custodial parent???!!!! Just trying to cause trouble..

I've have in the past found hate notes in daughters room with his name on them.... He's got to stop playing these stupid games!!!! It's not just me he's hurting.....