I have been with bf for 5 years now. His little precious is almost 20. She says she's moving out but never does and keeps saying she is going to college the next semester and that semester has never come. She has stolen from me, she tells lies on me, she treats me awful when he isn't here. She has told me this is not my house, I don't belong here, and even ask her father why he is with a fat, lazy person that doesn't work and won't do anything around the house. I have been recently diagnosed as disabled due to lower back problems. I now have to walk with a cane and park in handicap parking spots due to inability to walk. I have started falling recently and she thinks this is funny. She is a horrible person. I call her the anti-Christ and my family has pegged her the little b***h. I never told my family how she was or anything about her before they came out for a visit and from meeting this girl one time they have her pegged. I don't know what to do anymore. Her bm and bf have never really disciplined her. Her bm used to get in physical fights with her starting when she was 12 and still does. Her bf still lets her do anything she wants and never puts boundaries on her or punishments for what she has done. She has had a DUI and totaled her car and now she drives without a drivers license. She continues to drink and heavily I might add. She brings her loser boyfriend over here and if you don't run him off he spends the night which her father has told her he is not allowed to spend the night. The day she turned 18, she had her boyfriend over here spending the night. She has been like this since she was 12 or 13. Her bf told me they were considering sending her to military school at that age because she was sneaking out of the house and sneaking boys in her room. This is a troubled child, yes child. She is crying out for help and has totally turned on me. We used to be best friends but I found out she was doing drugs, among other things and felt that her father should know that information. She is a pot smoker, heavy pot smoker. She has 2 jobs and still can't get enough money to move out. Her boyfriend will not work, he would rather sell drugs and make his living that way. I'm at my wits end. I have told her bf that is she stays I will leave. I can not take her doing this anymore. Please help me!!!! She has done so much to me that I can't put it all on here. She still plays her parents and they fall for it everytime. She is a manipulative little shrew. And she has no clue what that means. She has got to be the dumbest person you have ever seen. She thinks Canada is part of the US and got mad when a local store would not take Canadian money. Hello!!! She thinks her car will on do 85 because that's what the speedometer registers. This is what is going to college. I told her not to waste the teachers time anymore. She's not smart enough to go to college. She is a waste of space and will be another statistic of a drug deal gone wrong. Any advice would be greatly appreciated on how to get this thing out of my house. She thinks just because I'm not working that I should be her maid and cater to her. She certainly has a problem with authority and thinks it's funny that the cops haven't caught her yet. I don't know what to do. I just want her out of the house. When she's not here, there is no drama in the house but when she's here, there's utter chaos. She and her boyfriend have broken a lot of things in the house fighting and she will not pick up after herself at all. Her room stinks from all the pot, beer, alcohol, dirty dishes, and God only knows what is in there. They have kicked holes in the walls, thrown phones - I can't tell you how many phones we have gone through or cell phones she has gone through. I am at my wits end, please help anyway possible. Thank you so much for any advice.
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